Pain with Intercourse? Why suffer in pain – when there is a path forward!

75% of women will experience painful intercourse during some point of their lives (According to the American College of Gynecologists and Obstetricians). Pain with intercourse is far more common than you might think. Because it is not a subject that is easily talked about, many women never seek help, consequently not only worsening their pain and problems, but hiding and feeling shameful for the issues to exist in the first place.

What causes pain with sex?

1. There are several contributing factors. The first one is pelvic floor muscle restriction or tightness. This means that those muscles have difficulty going through full range of motion, as they tend to stay in a more contracted state, instead of being able to lengthen and relax. Pelvic floor physical therapy can help to release pelvic floor muscle trigger points, decrease the over contractions, and teach you how to lengthen the pelvic floor muscles. We can also teach you stretches and exercises to improve overall lower extremity mobility which will lead to a more functional pelvic floor and more enjoyable sex experience.

2. Second contributing factor is breathing.  If we hold our breath during sex, then your pelvic floor muscles might stay in a tightened position, making intercourse more painful. The actions of your diaphragm, which is your main breathing muscle, are directly correlated to the actions of the pelvic floor. When you take a deep breath in through our belly, pelvic floor muscles lengthen. When you breath out, the diaphragm ascends, and the pelvic floor muscles also ascend and shorten. Not being able to take a full diaphragmatic breath in and out can lead to limited ability to lengthen the pelvic floor. Also, diaphragmatic breathing can help our nervous system calm down, which may make sex more enjoyable. Tip: take deep, diaphragmatic breaths before and during intercourse to decrease pain.

3. Third contributing factor is lubrication. Some women may have more of a need of lubrication than others, depending on hormonal contributors, whether they are on birth control, what period of their cycle they are on, and medications. Feeling of "pinching" in pelvic floor during intercourse is many times a sign of needing more lubrication. Find a lubricant that is water-based and natural, you can also use something as simple as coconut oil.

4. And last, but not least, is your mental state. Being able to enjoy sex requires being in a calm state of mind and being comfortable with your partner. Speak to a mental health provider if these are things you may be struggling with.

If you are having pain with sex, seek help from a pelvic floor physical therapist to improve your quality of life! Why Suffer in pain – when there is a path forward!

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